Answer the following questions by selecting how often each statement applies to you: Rarely, Sometimes, or Frequently. Be honest for the most accurate results.
1. Do you feel superior to your husband?
2. Do you nag your husband?
3. Do you commiserate with other wives about your husband?
4. Do you hear yourself say, “I told my husband . . .”?
5. Do you think that everything would be fine if your husband would do what you tell him to do?
6. Do you eavesdrop on your husband’s conversations?
7. Do you feel like the only adult in the family?
8. Do you feel overburdened in parenting your children?
9. Do you do things for your husband that he is capable of doing for himself?
10. Do you have recurring anxiety and/or depression?
11. Do you feel exhausted?
12. Do you find either of you are disinterested in sex?
13. Do you feel resentful or jealous about your husband’s victories in life?
14. Do you reject or criticize his gifts?
15. Do you fantasize about divorce or life with a man who would better match you?
16. Do you discount the reasons you chose your husband in the first place?
17. Do you feel hopeless about your marriage because your needs have gone unmet for so long?
18. Do you have a hard time trusting your husband in even small matters?
19. Do you find yourself trying to control your husband?
20. Do you get angry with your husband when he makes a poor decision?